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Sex & Intimacy / 26 minutes ago Back To Top

Mostly all women and a lot of men agree that taking advantage of a woman who is passed out or

greatly under the influence to where she cannot make an appropriate decison is wrong and in a lot of cases considered rape. So my question is why are people so ok with the idea that most men go to bars simply because they know there will be women there who have been drinking and that they can score with, whom they never could of if they hadn't been drinking, why is this excepted? What difference is it finding a drunk girl in a back bedroom at a party or at a bar?

- Asked by Male, 18-21
Sex & Intimacy / 27 minutes ago Back To Top

What's the general consensus out there about: Fling.com¿

Bcuz, I'm starting to get the feeling that it's a scam...

- Asked by socratease888, Female, 29-35, Melbourne
Sex & Intimacy / 1 hour ago Back To Top

What's the point of having any relationship anymore? People are whores and are not faithful anymore.

All I read about is misery, pain, ex's, heartache, suffering, families torn apart, children's childhoods not considered... bunch of selfish SOB's really. So what is the point anymore. Does anyone stick it out, stay together, practice true love and commitment? Remember when women used to complain that men had fears of commitment? Now it seems women do just as often if not more. 90% of women file for divorce or kick their husbands out so they can pork the next idiot victim. So for the frigid wives out there that so hate their husbands, maybe you might reconsider your whorish ways. And for the frigid husbands out there that so hate their wives, maybe you should be real men and not stray...
I really am just sick of this fucking shit.

- Asked by Male, 36-45
Sex & Intimacy / 2 hours ago Back To Top

I can orgasm during oral but not when my boyfriends inside me, and it takes nearly an hour. help?

I can only orgasm when my boyfriend is giving me oral, but not when his finger is inside of me. This could potentially become problematic when we decide to have sex and i cant orgasm when hes inside. It also takes me nearly an hour to orgasm. Its exhausting!! any help?

- Asked by sexycani42508, A Thinker, Female, 18-21
Sex & Intimacy / 3 hours ago Back To Top

A Woman's Ultimate Fantasy...

In a recent on-line poll 38,562 men across the country were asked to identify a woman's ultimate fantasy.

98.8% of the respondents said that a woman's ultimate fantasy is to have two men at once.

While this has been verified by a recent sociological study, it appears that most men do not realize that in this fantasy, one man is cooking and the other is cleaning.

- Asked by themamu, A Guy Critical, Male, 56-65, Consulting
Sex & Intimacy / 3 hours ago Back To Top

Have you ever felt your partner's sexual pleasure was your "job"?

Lately I've been having this problem of not being in the mood for sex. After ruling out the usual reasons why this could be happening, I started to think and ended up with an idea, or rather a feeling, I don't like at all.

Turns out that some part of my brain considers sex something like a chore. Although, not sex exactly. It's my active role in sex that seems to be the problem. It's kind of hard to explain... I honestly enjoy what I do to her during foreplay. The same goes for sex and cuddling afterward. But lately (been together for 8 months now) I've been starting to feel like it's my duty to first get her all prepped and ready for sex, then give her a mind-blowing experience and finally cuddle her to sleep or whatever we do after. In retrospect, same thing happened with my ex, but since she seemed to not enjoy sex at all (current gf clearly does), I simply thought that was the reason and moved on. Now I obviously don't want to do this again, so I'm turning to all of you for advice. And I probably should add that this started happening once everything started to become really serious.

Did you ever have the feeling it's "your job" to make your partner have the time of their life every time? Did it make you lose interest in sex? What did you do to get rid of this feeling?

Update: November 20, 2009.
Thanks for all your advice and opinions so far, but some answers make me think I wasn't completely clear. I DO give it my best and she DOES enjoy it. She also DOES reciprocate gladly and fully. It's not one-sided. I thought I was clear when I said that I do sincerely enjoy everything we do. 30 min of foreplay seems the average length and I don't mind it. Usually our whole sex-thing takes from 1-2hrs. Can't remember the last time it was under one hour. And obviously I also like that It's simply the feeling that it's not supposed to feel like something you have to do but something you want to do. The problem is here: If we have a quickie I'll start getting the feeling that I'm just using her even though I'll rationally know it's not true. THAT'S what I wanna get rid of.

- Asked by windlord, A Guy Critical, Male, 22-25, Student
Sex & Intimacy / 5 hours ago Back To Top

Any advice for a guy in a relationship with a sex performer at a chat site ? How to find out if.....

she's honest and for real ?

- Asked by A Guy Critical, Male, 36-45
Sex & Intimacy / 5 hours ago Back To Top

a question re oral sex

do most people use a condom when having oral sex (heterosexual relationship with new person)ie: blow jobs

- Asked by A Thinker, Female, 29-35
Sex & Intimacy / 5 hours ago Back To Top

How many boners do you get in a given day?

Question for the guys obviously. But if you women think you get them too join in. :D

- Asked by ellekassia26, A Creative, Female, 26-28, Artist / Musician / Writer
Sex & Intimacy / 6 hours ago Back To Top

Ladies when was the last time you sucked dick? Guys when was the last you sucked labia?

You saw the question. When was the last time you your mouth was on someone's nether region?

Update: November 20, 2009.
I licked some last night and damn she liked it! After about 15 mins she was ready for the main course.

- Asked by newnumbersguy32, A Mr. Nice Guy, Male, 36-45, Financial / Banking