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2 wonderful girls and 1 dilemna
2 wonderful girls and 1 dilemna / Moving On / 10:25 PM - Tuesday September 21, 2004
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A Jock (Male, Minneapolis, 22-25, Student) asked:


Girls and Guys, I need some serious advice. I dated a girl for 7 years, since I was 16. We broke up a a little over a year and half ago. She is a wonderful girl and I can actually understand her wanting to try dating other people. I was a wreck for awhile. I got over it mostly and started dating another girl like 5 months later. She was great too, but I got annoyed by her at times. I still thought about my ex quite a bit and talked to her once in awhile too. Well, my ex somehow came back into the picture and now wants to be with me. I broke up with the new girl and have been going crazy thinking about it. I know I to try it again with my ex, but I don't know what to do about girl I had dating. They are both such great women. I can picture myself with either. There are reasons to be with both. My question is, How can I make a decision about which woman I want to be with? I know it is hard to give advice considering you know nothing about the two women, but what are some general things to consider? Thanks for any advice


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A Cool Mom (Female, 18-21, Home Maker) answered:

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Here are a few questions that should mkae things a little easier: Who makes you laugh? Who makes you feel like you are her world? Who would do anything for you? Who can you depend on to be there no matter what?

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A Hip-Hop Guy (Male, Toronto, 22-25, Who Cares?) answered:

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well buddy first of all i think that you couldn't stop thinking of your ex because you been with her for so long. and the other girl well i think you had strong feelings for her because she was the girl who helped you heal faster and better through your breakup from your first girl. my advice will be to really think if the girl your with the one you been dating for five months if the feelings you have for her are real and genuine and if something could come of it because deep down inside your really still in love with your first com'on seven years thats a long time you guys been throu thick and thin and in my opinion i think i'll stick with her. hope i've helped best of luck

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A Player (Male, Ottawa, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: archius


Which one will make the better wife?
Which one wants kids? that is if you want some???
Which one do you trust more?
Try to figure out which one gets mad faster and choose the other one, you will want a patient woman for your kids.

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