A Life of the Party (Female, Washington, DC, 22-25) answered:

Do you trust him 100%? If you don't, then you can't even consider starting a relationship with him. That's the major component of being with someone. It sounds like you don't trust him all of the way, and I wouldn't if I were you either. The truth is is that you don't have to make a decision right away. You are young, and not tied down right now. You are around lots of hot guys that would NEVER cheat on you, so why waste time on a guy that's hurt you deliberately? If I were you, I would ask for some time. If he goes away and loses interest, it just shows he wasn't for you. If you connect down the road and you really sense a change in him, go for it. He needs to realize that you aren't there any time he can have you. I know this change is scary, but hang in there! :)

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well this guy is a real piece of work!! Don't be a doormat, this guy thinks you are stupid! Words are just that words! This guys actions have shown you that he is not trustworthy at all and then to top it all off he thinks you are stupid! If you talk to him again and listen to his line of bull shit then you prove him right you are stupid and you deserve all the heart ache he will give!! Start, FRESH! why? he couldn't get it right the first time he damb sure won't get it right the second time it will get even worse!Don't be scared of getting hurt prepare yourself to get hurt! That is what will happen if you let this jerk continue to feed you these lies of bull shit!! Look I don't know you or him but,the ones that are nice, shy, you know the quiet type that you say he is! Well, guess why they are that way? Because they are scared that if they open thier mouth the trueth might fly out! That is why he did't ask you nor did he care about how you feel! That is why he did it threw an e-mail he can't look you in the eye to lie to you!This guy is low you should post his picture to worn other women of this selfish piece of @&*#@ I'm sorry but my advice to you is change your e-mail block his calls and for god sakes don't answer your door to this man or sha'll I say mouse! Trust me he will get the message!He didn't give you the respect of dog so don't give him the respect of exsplaining to him why your not going to see him just cut all ties now LET HIM GO!! What I am basically saying to you is that you never had him to begain with he had you!If you allow this relationship to continue then the cheating will continue as well !You said it yourself he will do it again! Besides the fact its only been 4 or 5 months and this started when??? Cut your loses now you haven't invested to much yet!! Come on Girl, you can for sure find someone more deserving of not only you love but also your friendship!!!

Good Luck

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A Creative (Female, 22-25, Science / Engineering) answered:

This guy has "bad" all over him. I know how hard it can be to see the warning signs and actually listen to them...believe me, I've been there. You want to believe sooooo badly that this person that you really like is going to suddenly change their ways and choose you and then all will be great. However, I've never had this happen to me. I always ended up getting hurt...plenty of times too. My advice is to right now, right this second, tell yourself that you deserve better than this and that you should have someone that would be so in to you that they wouldn't go off and sleep with 4 other girls. That really doesn't show that he's serious about you...it's actually pretty disrespectful. There is always that 1.5% chance that he possibly will change and give you what you want, but that's not a good chance. Hope this helps! Now...if only I can listen to my OWN advice like this sometimes! : )

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