A Rebel (Male, 18-21) answered:

omg I'm so sorry to hear that babe.

Please don't give up the fight. You are too amazing a person to do such a thing. I was going to answer thsi question but now I see the context of it, I am not going to even let you go down this train of thought. You are so strong. I bullshit you not when I say that I actually admire your qualities and used to envy the happiness, strength and perserverance you had in each of your projects whether it was the orphanage or the health centre.

Please Minx you can't let this take you to such a bad place. I'm about to do my morning prayers and you will definitely be in them. I love you as much as a person possibly can love a person over the net that they have never met and it'd break my heart to know that you'd give up on life when it's so obvious that yours has such unlimited potential.

Chilled

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A Career Woman (Female, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) answered:

At my age, not a lot of unfinished business, however, my dreams are endless, as your's should be.

I know you feel like throwing in the towel, don't. Fight with your whole heart and soul, I've seen many a fight won, but your heart must be in it. Think of your dreams, make them come true.

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A Life of the Party (Male, Zurich, 26-28, Who Cares?) answered:

dammit, I was never the type of guy that didn't know what to say, but here, I'm at a loss of words....

Can I just hug you?

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, 46-55, Political / Government) answered:

Squeeze in 100 years of living......into 180 days of happiness.


If you have cancer, aren't you suppose to kick ass and fight it? Aren't you going to flip a coin and decide which way to go with it? Are you going to wimp out? That's what I thought......

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, Phoenix, 26-28, Medical / Dental) answered:

O God where do i start when i read something like this " i don't get it what is a purpose in it WHY "
I don't know you all i have seen so far is what people's opinion are of you . And girl you not only seem like something else
you are .
There is no possible way for anyone to understand what you go trough but i have to say don't give up.
You did it once you can do it again if you need friend someone to talk let me know .
Whoever reads this will offer whatever they can any kind of support you need.
We will pray talk and be here for you have Faith please do .
Hugs

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, 46-55) answered:

I am sorry to hear that. I haven't talked to you much but i hope you keep on fighting it. I think you are a strong person to fight it and miracles do happen. I will pray that one happens for you.you seem like a sweet person.

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Sorry to hear that. What kind of cancer do you have?

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A Rebel (Male, New York, Who Cares?, Who Cares?) answered:

My sis fought the greatest fight ever only to be decimated ravaged by lung cancer, after seeing that, I don't know ,maybe one great party, friends family, decadence, drink smokes hugs and kisses, then one great exit. Everyone isn't a fighter, good luck

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A Hip-Hop Guy (Male, 36-45) answered:

I'm 39, people on here don't know me well enough, but I've been diagnosed with a debilitating disease since I was born. When my parents were told I would be lucky to live into my twenties, it almost tore them apart. There is no cure for what I have, only a way to control what may eventually kill me. I don't discuss this with anyone on here and only one person knows about what I have.

I lived quite well into my 20s, but I was told that I should really start taking care of my health much better. Then in a 16 month period... I saw 3 close friends who share the same disease die from other complications that they developed because of our disease. I told myself at that point I want more to life.

Here today, I have a beautiful little boy who's 3. He wasn't born with my disease (God bless his soul). And to this day, I swore the I will be there as long as I can for him. At times my treatment is very tiring. I've been in study, after study, after study, just trying to find better treatments.
At that turning point in my life, I did not expect to have a son ever. All I was doing was trying to get my body to a point where if something came along (treatment), that my body would be able to take it. I've gone to more funerals for friends than I care to think of. But I know in my heart they are cheering for me and are with me.
Don't live for a simple dream, live for the love of living. I love I have great friends and a great family. But most importantly, I live because I get to share my love! Be passionate about love and life.

Good luck, and God bless.

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A Jock (Male, 22-25, Construction) answered:

life is never worth giving up lass, if you give up then you will lose, but if you fight you will win... the body is an amazing thing and alot of things have to do with your train of thought... i'm truly sorry to hear this.... to get something like this at such a young age really sucks(getting it at all really sucks) but if i had a say at all i would say fight it.

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A Life of the Party (Female, 29-35) answered:

There are also a lot of experimental therapies that may work, but because of the FDA taking a long time to approve drugs they may not be available to your doctor-or some that have a chance of working well but aren't the typical ones used or aren't used because they only work in a small percentage of people. Look into everything if your doctor doesn't satisfy you. Ask about getting into trials, about using off label drugs, about the real chances of different proposed therapies working.

Unless you have a .00000000000000001% chance of surviving, then please fight.

Please don't give up, you are such a beautiful person.

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A Guy Critical (Male, 36-45) answered:

I'd live my life as long as I could.... Doing the things that make me feel good..... Hangin wit the friends and family.....
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A Thinker (Female, Cleveland, 29-35, Student) answered:

Sorry to hear about your diagnosis. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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A Creative (Female, 36-45, Student) answered:

I'm so sorry you are facing this scenario and wish you the best...I can totally understand how devastating cancer is and how it affects every aspect of one's life because I've had too many family members die from it...the one thing that I would try to focus on if I had cancer, would be to make each day count and to get everything in 'order' before I died so that I would be comforted in knowing that my family/children were taken care of and that they knew what I wanted when I died...it would be hard to come to terms with but so much harder to leave things hanging without any thought to what happens after I died...the unresolved issue that would need to be tied up would be knowing that my children were taken care of, my dad had the best possible care and that anything/everything I own would be distributed equally among my family...the dream that would never be fulfilled would be to become a psychologist, something I am working toward right now...take care sweetie and you're in my thoughts/prayers...:D

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A Guy Critical (Male, San Francisco, 46-55, Retired) answered:

Please get over to the States. Nothing against Romania, but we've got the best of the best as far as cancer centers.. If you can't get here, e-mail me please.

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