I'm afraid I feel disgusted and turned off by a guy I have started dating again.
We dated twice last year but were long distance.
I found out on our long second date that he was dating someone but never told me about it. We even kissed and hugged/over the clothes fondling but nothing more serious.
Still I was disturbed he had a 'casual gf' and didnt tell me about it. He explained she was pushy and led him around. I saw her myspace page where she stated she MUST get married within a few years and excused him cause she did come off demanding.
Well everything has been cool until he mentioned his ex ex gf and called her a 9 looks and body but now is a 'loser cat lady'. I asked why he would insult an ex like that and he said oh thats just how he sees it and sorry for coming off like a jerk about women. Well ok. then 5 minutes later he mentions the girl he dated last year. 'Ms' Pushy' ... Well he then said oh she had amazing eyes/ eyelashes. I said oh i thought she wasnt important.
he then added well her face was a 5 and her body just a 5 too. OMG I am now so turned off that he rates womens bodies so coldy and that he obviously liked the girl he just dated and is FOS (full of pooness)
I think he has killed all my attraction. I now feel horribly insecure. and I actually modelled and am told im pretty cute but now I feel like a piece of meat. Im afraid telling him it upsets me wont solve anything. He'll STILL be judging in silence.
Good enough reason to end it ?