i met this great gut, really really sweet.he moved in with me, although we had some cultural differences i tried my best to make him feel welcome and at home with me. he is from istanbul turkey...and i am from north carolina.there were some issues where we really didnt have the same interests and couldnt understand each other sometimes, but for the most part got along great i tried to be very patient and only caught myself raising my voice once,tried to cook traditional turkish meals, needless to say the relationship only lasted two months...and he left. and moved to californa,saying he was going to do seasonal work and then come back here, i thought everything was fine, i emailed him to make sure he made it safely and he said practically tks for a good time but he would not be coming back because i had raised my voice that one time. is this a cop out or what? i am confused.he had never gotten frustrated or upset with me but i did with him only the one time because it did cause me alot of stress in dealing with not being able to understand each other and i am sure it sometimes showed on my face, but now i feel like a total bitch although i know i wasnt....and i have lost a good man...i didnt even realize i had hurt him at all until i recieved the email. i know the relationship is over but i dont want for him to think of me in a bad way, because i didnt mean to hurt him. should i send an email explaining myside or just let it go.