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difrent last names / Family & Parenting / 4:15 PM - Sunday May 11, 2008
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A Guy Critical (Male, 22-25) asked:


What do you think of people that have more than 4 kids?

was your kid an accident if so how?


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A Married Girl (Female, 36-45, Student) answered:


I don't have kids.

In general, I do wonder why people have so many kids. I think some came from large families and this is what they are used to. Some, well, they are just irresponsible. I know people who have kids from different men and... I don't know. It's not my job to judge them but I do wonder about people's reasoning out of curiosity.

"Accidents" within a marriage situation, well, that happens. As long as the parents treat that little miracle with love. I know I will sound extremely conservative when I say there shouldn't be "accidents" among singles. When I was single and not a Christian, I knew that if I got pregnant, I would not have an abortion but how irresponsible is it for singles to be having sex and risking getting pregnant? Sex can make babies, hel-LO! We've become a world where, for the most part, sex has become an itch to scratch, not a God-given gift for married couples... "Relax, it's just sex" is such an irresponsible and emotionally immature stance. How about, "Relax, you're pregnant from some guy you don't even have a name or phone number for and now you just need to make the decision whether to end a life or do the responsible and mature thing and have that baby"?

Sorry, stepping off soap box now...

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A Married Girl (Female, 29-35, Transportation) answered:

Screenname: rotintothickoar


My first thought is that they must be catholic.

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A Cool Mom (Female, Philadelphia, 36-45, Home Maker) answered:

Screenname: mburgos


none of my children were a accident, it was god's will. they are here and i love and adore them. the only accident was being with their father so long...

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A Thinker (Female, New York, 46-55, Retired) answered:

Screenname: maryea


I'm one of nine kids and grew up in a neighborhood where we were not unusual nor were we the biggest family. I have three kids and let God decide when they were conceived. After that we took care not to have more. It is a personal choice. There is no right answer. If you are a good parent, you have every right to choose the number. If you are a bad parent, don't like kids, don't want kids, don't have more/any kids.

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A Sportif (Female, Dallas, 46-55, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: scooper


both of our sons were planned

if you can afford 4 kids, then it is okay.....when we first got married I hoped we would have had 3 or 4...but finances did not allow it so we only had 2

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An Alternative Girl (Female, London, 22-25, Internet / New Media) answered:

Screenname: tabbycat1


If they can afford to raise them and don't try to force me to have any, it's their business.

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